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#TransJoy
Happy Monday!
Have the best day you can and be kind out there.
Picture is of a painted rock seen along a walking trail.
This weekend, my wife and I got to go for a very rare weekend away. It was relaxing and wonderful and so nice to just step away from all the everything for a little bit.
Last night we got to get dressed up and go out to a fancy dinner. I felt great. One of the nice restaurant staff said she loved how my wife (with her bright red hair, red lipstick, and dress with red flowers on it) and I matched but were opposites.
Photo CW eye contact
My make up and style and lipstick and everythin had been really good in the last few weeks, if I do say so myself. 
(The lighting in this photo isn't great, you can't really see my colourful eyeshadow, blah blah, I'm still rockin’ it! 
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vanta rainbow black 
Being taken out for mothers day for the first time by my amazing BF. Feeling very spoilt and seen today. #trans #transisbeautiful #transjoy #transgender #mtf
Got a text from my son this morning. They found a drag bar in Seoul that is a celebration of queer joy and safety in community.
Previously they'd found some gay bars (they pass masc enough now as an masc-enby to be allowed in) but their lesbian friends were not. So they kept looking for a space they can all share.
I'm so happy that my son is finding their community of queers. Being on your own in a new country is hard!
'A walk in Cork' this Saturday morning (just...)
- Me in colour? Hell may be freezing over, I'm in red
- The two of us, with @IsabelB
- Isabel and Toto are ahead
- The foxgloves are out
I'm openly trans and really don't mind who knows, it's liberating! The journey is tremendously deep, medical stuff is less a goal than a natural intuitive process intertwined with self actualization ...
Have a nice day 
Will it be cold enough at the markets to wear my puffy jacket? Let's find out! (Also, this gets me to 98% wardrobe utilisation for the year!)
Oh, and #memade skirt. With pockets!
It’s the birthday Bun Bun. George is three years old today 
I've decided that instead of "deadname", which I like but has sort of negative connotations that I feel like I want to avoid, I'm going to refer to that name I once bore as an "appellation d'origine contrôlée", or "appcon" as I'll use it.
It means "a name for a thing that comes from a specific region", like champagne, or burgundy, or bologna.
Mine was a name that, thankfully, no one has ever claimed as a feminine name, nor has there ever been a movement to use it for girls. So if I define the region as "masculinity", it works perfectly. It wasn't right for me - I'm not from there. I don't have the right to call myself by that appellation controllée.
Somehow, it lets me hate my appcon a little less. It's a good enough name, I guess, for those who come from Masculinia. But I'm not from there.
Jan 
Out for a little nature therapy after work, wandering aimlessly in the woods 
