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saxnot<p>It's funny how much more mature and reasonable you look simply by not participating in <a href="https://chaos.social/tags/purityculture" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>purityculture</span></a>.</p><p>it's a default W.<br>Even easier than "easy" W.</p><p>also I want to make it grammatically clear that the "we" was grammatically exclusive. I mean my partners and me and it's not a "we" that includes the people obsessed with sex and constantly yapping about how only supernatural intervention can help them cope with it (puritian christians)</p>
mk30<p>"drag queen vs creepy men in DMs" <a href="https://youtu.be/-n1ohTZSC94?si=PXxDjQpEwmY0_uMd" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">youtu.be/-n1ohTZSC94?si=PXxDjQ</span><span class="invisible">pEwmY0_uMd</span></a></p><p><a href="https://tilde.zone/tags/gross" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>gross</span></a> <a href="https://tilde.zone/tags/PurityCulture" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>PurityCulture</span></a></p>
jordan<p>Just saw a tiktok with a white lady chastising other "⚪ people" for using a certain audio in their videos and "sneering" their lips in sync with a typical boisterous vocalization calling it "digital blackface".</p><p>Things aren't looking good for 2028, y'all.</p><p><a href="https://mastodon.jordanwages.com/tags/leftistinfighting" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>leftistinfighting</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.jordanwages.com/tags/purityculture" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>purityculture</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.jordanwages.com/tags/digitalblackface" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>digitalblackface</span></a></p>
PsyPost<p>Purity culture = horrible sex? New research sheds light on white Christian women’s sexual well-being <a href="https://www.psypost.org/purity-culture-horrible-sex-new-research-sheds-light-on-white-christian-womens-sexual-well-being/?utm_source=dlvr.it&amp;utm_medium=mastodon" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">psypost.org/purity-culture-hor</span><span class="invisible">rible-sex-new-research-sheds-light-on-white-christian-womens-sexual-well-being/?utm_source=dlvr.it&amp;utm_medium=mastodon</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/PurityCulture" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>PurityCulture</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/SexualWellbeing" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>SexualWellbeing</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/ChristianWomen" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>ChristianWomen</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/SexualHealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>SexualHealth</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/MaritalSatisfaction" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>MaritalSatisfaction</span></a></p>
ladychelseaofthevoid<p>Doo Wop (That Thing) is an insanely catchy song that I didn't realize until recently was about conforming to purity culture. Though that was just kind of the cultural thing at the time when evangelicals were pushing purity into the mainstream. </p><p><a href="https://social.vivaldi.net/tags/laurynhill" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>laurynhill</span></a> <a href="https://social.vivaldi.net/tags/doowop" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>doowop</span></a> <a href="https://social.vivaldi.net/tags/thatthing" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>thatthing</span></a> <a href="https://social.vivaldi.net/tags/rap" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>rap</span></a> <a href="https://social.vivaldi.net/tags/randb" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>randb</span></a> <a href="https://social.vivaldi.net/tags/hiphop" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>hiphop</span></a> <a href="https://social.vivaldi.net/tags/purityculture" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>purityculture</span></a> <a href="https://social.vivaldi.net/tags/evangelical" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>evangelical</span></a> <a href="https://social.vivaldi.net/tags/exvangelical" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>exvangelical</span></a></p>
ladychelseaofthevoid<p>evangelical child-rearing and purity culture is so fucking weird. they'll go on and on about how the LGBTQIA are grooming kids but don't bat an eye at creepy af father-daughter dynamics like purity rings and balls. </p><p>evangelical dad: "hey, the gays are groominig our children and we need it to stop. also, you're invited to my daughter's purity ball where it's set up exactly like a wedding. I've been grooming my daughters since birth to accept that their body will eventually be property of a man they haven't met yet." </p><p>do mothers do that with their sons? not that I've seen. I have seen fathers promising their sons that they will be given wives as a reward for their purity, like women are a commodity, not human beings with their own prerogatives </p><p>the status of a girl's vagina should not dictate her worth </p><p>so fucking gross</p><p><a href="https://social.vivaldi.net/tags/purityculture" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>purityculture</span></a> <a href="https://social.vivaldi.net/tags/patriarchy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>patriarchy</span></a> <a href="https://social.vivaldi.net/tags/evangelical" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>evangelical</span></a> <a href="https://social.vivaldi.net/tags/exvangelical" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>exvangelical</span></a> <a href="https://social.vivaldi.net/tags/exchristian" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>exchristian</span></a> <a href="https://social.vivaldi.net/tags/purity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>purity</span></a> <a href="https://social.vivaldi.net/tags/purityballs" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>purityballs</span></a> <a href="https://social.vivaldi.net/tags/purityrings" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>purityrings</span></a> <a href="https://social.vivaldi.net/tags/misogyny" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>misogyny</span></a></p>
Court Cantrell prefers not to<p>Thinking about when the dorm supervisor at my conservative Christian university told me I needed to "remove the poster of the naked man" from my wall.</p><p>It was a poster of Michelangelo's "The Creation of Adam" that I'd picked up in Vatican City the previous summer. 🙄</p><p>me: he's not even sexy! 😫 😆</p><p>That was another life, for sure. </p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/exvangelical" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>exvangelical</span></a><br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/ConservativeChristianity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>ConservativeChristianity</span></a><br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/ChurchOfChrist" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>ChurchOfChrist</span></a><br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/PurityCulture" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>PurityCulture</span></a><br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/ArtAppreciation" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>ArtAppreciation</span></a><br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/NudityIsNotPorn" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>NudityIsNotPorn</span></a></p>
royal :terminal:<p>Author Martha Wells on stepping back from a certain social network because of the culture.</p><p>Why did I immediately assume it must be Mastodon?</p><p><a href="https://fosstodon.org/tags/purityCulture" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>purityCulture</span></a></p>
Dorothea Zwölfer (sie)<p>Das schöne an der Nutzung der Bahn ist, dass man nebenher Podcasts hören kann. Eben hörte ich von "Secta" das Gespräch mit <a href="https://federation.network/tags/Nana" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#Nana</a> <a href="https://federation.network/tags/Myrrhe" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#Myrrhe</a> über die sogenannte <a href="https://federation.network/tags/PurityCulture" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#PurityCulture</a> - echt krass, was sie erlebt hat. <a href="https://federation.network/tags/Fundamentalismus" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#Fundamentalismus</a> <a href="https://federation.network/tags/evangelikal" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#evangelikal</a> <a href="https://federation.network/tags/fckprty" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#fckprty</a></p>
MONTREAL Ask A Punk<p>SUONI X SICK OF FUN : PURITY CULTURE (TO), PUFFER, ZEAL (OTT), WHITE KNUCKLE</p><p>Casa Del Popolo, Sunday, 23 June (20:00)</p><p><a href="https://montreal.askapunk.net/event/suoni-x-sick-of-fun-purity-culture-to-puffer-zeal-ott-white-knuckle" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">montreal.askapunk.net/event/su</span><span class="invisible">oni-x-sick-of-fun-purity-culture-to-puffer-zeal-ott-white-knuckle</span></a></p>
jiujensu🇵🇸<p>7/16<br>...but I would encourage you not to think of religion as a prima facie GOOD (or your priests and preachers and elders as unimpeachable) either. But that is America. *sigh* And this is part of my story. </p><p>There was the headship doctrine, frequently cited from 1 Corinthians: "the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God"</p><p><a href="https://mas.to/tags/science" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>science</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/religioustrauma" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>religioustrauma</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/religion" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>religion</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/womeninstem" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>womeninstem</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/mentor" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>mentor</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/patriarchy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>patriarchy</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/headship" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>headship</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/purityculture" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>purityculture</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/vetschool" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>vetschool</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/jiujitsu" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>jiujitsu</span></a></p>
guyjantic has moved!Conservative Christianity, masturbation, sex, marriage, gender norms, sexual coercion (mention)
Mr. Bruno :antiverified:<p>New atheist show starts today... We hope!</p><p><a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/CallTheLine" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>CallTheLine</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/ChewedGum" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>ChewedGum</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/EveWasFramed" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>EveWasFramed</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/AlyssaLjub" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>AlyssaLjub</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/WomenAtheists" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>WomenAtheists</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/Skeptics" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Skeptics</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/PurityCulture" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>PurityCulture</span></a></p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/live/ptwyWv95ZuI?si=Jcb3CIKdP66vwo2-" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">youtube.com/live/ptwyWv95ZuI?s</span><span class="invisible">i=Jcb3CIKdP66vwo2-</span></a></p>
Paul Kemner<p>What's worse is I'm seeing <a href="https://urusai.social/tags/PurityCulture" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>PurityCulture</span></a> posts of "Biden is disappointing, so I'm not going to vote, and let Trump win."</p><p>If they're saying that, they should follow it up with "IDGAF if people less fortunate than me die, are beaten by the police and anti-woke groups, sent further into poverty."</p><p>Because their purity is more important.</p>
Court Cantrell prefers not to<p>I get really tired of experts who know a lot about [CONCEPT] saying that people who engage in [CONCEPT] are acting in bad faith or supporting something bad, when the people in question don't know enough about [CONCEPT] to know that it could possibly be bad.</p><p>YES THIS IS A SUBTOOT</p><p>*sigh*</p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/tired" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>tired</span></a><br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/TooOldToGiveAFuck" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>TooOldToGiveAFuck</span></a> about your <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Secular" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Secular</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/PurityCulture" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>PurityCulture</span></a></p>
Court Cantrell prefers not to<p>In our powerlessness as we watch the world crumble, it's easy to feel that if we can speak our piece online...making sure everyone is using the right language...which is a purity concept--it's easy to feel that if we do this, we've gained a measure of control and we're changing the world for the better.</p><p>But really, it's just another form of toxic negativity and <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/fundamentalism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>fundamentalism</span></a>.</p><p>Policing others' language very easily turns into a secular form of <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/PurityCulture" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>PurityCulture</span></a>.</p><p>More thoughts here later, maybe.</p>
Janice Selbie<p>One way to help recover from toxic <a href="https://mas.to/tags/purityculture" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>purityculture</span></a> is to try something new, like a sexual <a href="https://mas.to/tags/retreat" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>retreat</span></a> or <a href="https://mas.to/tags/workshop" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>workshop</span></a>. Investigate thoroughly before committing your time &amp; money. Then, if it appeals to your curiosity: GO FOR IT. Regardless of whether you use what you learn in the workshop, you empower yourself every time you try something new. <a href="https://mas.to/tags/sexuality" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>sexuality</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/sexual" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>sexual</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/health" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>health</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/empowerment" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>empowerment</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/new" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>new</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/curiosity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>curiosity</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/goforit" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>goforit</span></a></p>
Jörg Lohrer<p>"Exvangelical" Mona Krähling heute ab 16 Uhr live im EZW-Gespräch zur Vernetzung von Menschen, die fundamentalistische, evangelikale Gemeinschaften verlassen haben. <a href="https://reliverse.social/tags/purityculture" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>purityculture</span></a>, <a href="https://reliverse.social/tags/digitaleKirche" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>digitaleKirche</span></a> <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://reliverse.social/@relilab" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">@<span>relilab</span></a></span> <a href="https://reliverse.social/tags/FediLZ" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>FediLZ</span></a> <a href="https://relilab.org/die-ezw-im-gespraech-mit-exvangelicals/" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">relilab.org/die-ezw-im-gesprae</span><span class="invisible">ch-mit-exvangelicals/</span></a></p>
Jo ♀️🐈🐈‍⬛🛍️🌛🥂<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://mastodon.social/@JoshuaHolland" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">@<span>JoshuaHolland</span></a></span> yup. And anything Jessica Valenti writes is worth reading. She's a wealth of information on this subject. I wish she had a Mastodon account.<br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/ProChoiceWomen" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>ProChoiceWomen</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/fuckthepatriarchy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>fuckthepatriarchy</span></a> <br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/purityculture" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>purityculture</span></a> is BS <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/tuesdaythoughts" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>tuesdaythoughts</span></a></p>
Janice Selbie<p>Looking for a <a href="https://mas.to/tags/career" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>career</span></a> change? <a href="https://mas.to/tags/purityculture" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>purityculture</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/recovery" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>recovery</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/bdsm" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>bdsm</span></a> <a href="https://www.businessinsider.com/financial-dominatrix-what-its-like-owned-subs-send-money-2023-10?amp&amp;fbclid=IwAR2QBw2L9Ld8rQzPg7JMAQmrpKSi-VMZd9f_t618OQ-XlYA64jPu0GFUbCQ_aem_Ab9J-85GIM7RjWNeHlhfk1eh0pENkc-GED6TWvEwKlRl2Gm2_1gZsWapE3JjWhNxpnI" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">businessinsider.com/financial-</span><span class="invisible">dominatrix-what-its-like-owned-subs-send-money-2023-10?amp&amp;fbclid=IwAR2QBw2L9Ld8rQzPg7JMAQmrpKSi-VMZd9f_t618OQ-XlYA64jPu0GFUbCQ_aem_Ab9J-85GIM7RjWNeHlhfk1eh0pENkc-GED6TWvEwKlRl2Gm2_1gZsWapE3JjWhNxpnI</span></a></p>