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Andy BGot around to posting my review of A Rational Arrangement by L Rowyn. Definitely one I loved.<a href="https://andorabrokaw.com/2025/08/08/a-rational-arrangement-by-l-rowyn/" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank">https://andorabrokaw.com/2025/08/08/a-rational-arrangement-by-l-rowyn/</a><a href="https://mastodon.art/@rowyn" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">@rowyn</a> <a href="https://writing.exchange/tags/PolyamorousBooks" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#PolyamorousBooks</a> <a href="https://writing.exchange/tags/PolyamorousRomantasy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#PolyamorousRomantasy</a> <a href="https://writing.exchange/tags/PolyamorousRomance" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#PolyamorousRomance</a> <a href="https://writing.exchange/tags/Polyamorous" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#Polyamorous</a>

Martin Guay 👨‍💻🌈🎮📱🍁At 43, I’m proof love has no expiration or simple blueprint. I'm embracing vulnerability, love deeply, and building a family that reflects my truth, with respect, patience, and care. It’s messy, beautiful, and mine. Unfolding one day at a time.<a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/poly" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#poly</a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/polyamorous" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#polyamorous</a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/gay" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#gay</a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/gaybear" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#gaybear</a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/LGBTQIA" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#LGBTQIA</a> PART 7 of 7

Martin Guay 👨‍💻🌈🎮📱🍁Love at this stage in life isn’t about fitting into traditional moulds. It’s about building your own unique family, with honesty, boundaries, and mutual care. “This is my family,” even if it surprises them.<a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/polyamory" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#polyamory</a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/polyamorous" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#polyamorous</a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/gay" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#gay</a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/gaybear" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#gaybear</a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/2SLGBTQIA" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#2SLGBTQIA</a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/LGBTQIA" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#LGBTQIA</a> PART 6 of 7

Martin Guay 👨‍💻🌈🎮📱🍁Being “seen” by someone, truly seen, is one of the most profound experiences. It melts walls, builds trust, and creates intimacy that goes beyond the physical. When you find that, hold on tight. <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/polyamory" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#polyamory</a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/polyamorous" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#polyamorous</a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/gay" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#gay</a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/gaybear" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#gaybear</a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/2SLGBTQIA" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#2SLGBTQIA</a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/LGBTQIA" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#LGBTQIA</a> PART 5 of 7

Martin Guay 👨‍💻🌈🎮📱🍁Hosting family, juggling chaos, and still carving out space for love. Not always easy, but being a safe, grounding presence for someone amid life’s storms is a gift. Love isn’t just romance; it’s support, understanding & presence.<a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/polyamory" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#polyamory</a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/polyamorous" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#polyamorous</a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/gay" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#gay</a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/gaybear" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#gaybear</a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/2SLGBTQIA" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#2SLGBTQIA</a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/LGBTQIA" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#LGBTQIA</a> PART 4 of 7

Martin Guay 👨‍💻🌈🎮📱🍁Sometimes love requires waiting, waiting for someone to process feelings, to open up, to trust fully. That patience is hard but rewarding. The best connections aren’t rushed; they grow steadily, rooted in respect and authenticity.<a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/polyamory" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#polyamory</a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/polyamorous" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#polyamorous</a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/gay" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#gay</a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/gaybear" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#gaybear</a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/2SLGBTQIA" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#2SLGBTQIA</a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/LGBTQIA" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#LGBTQIA</a> PART 3 of 7

Martin Guay 👨‍💻🌈🎮📱🍁What does it mean to love two people at once? It means balancing respect, openness, and clear communication. It means understanding each partner’s needs without trying to “fix” anything. Real love is a partnership, not a project.<a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/polyamory" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#polyamory</a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/polyamorous" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#polyamorous</a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/gay" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#gay</a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/gaybear" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#gaybear</a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/2SLGBTQIA" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#2SLGBTQIA</a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/LGBTQIA" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#LGBTQIA</a> PART 2 of 7

Martin Guay 👨‍💻🌈🎮📱🍁Navigating love in your 40s isn’t always straightforward. It’s about knowing yourself deeply, being honest, and embracing complexity. I’ve learned that sometimes love comes from the most unexpected places & it demands patience.<a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/polyamory" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#polyamory</a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/polyamorous" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#polyamorous</a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/gay" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#gay</a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/gaybear" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#gaybear</a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/2SLGBTQIA" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#2SLGBTQIA</a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/LGBTQIA" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#LGBTQIA</a> PART 1 of 7

EndlessMasonDear <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/poly" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#poly</a> <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/polyamorous" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#polyamorous</a> <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/fedi" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#fedi</a> users of the <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/lazyweb" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#lazyweb</a>, is there a federated sync-able calendar y'all can recommend?

Melancholic Mediocrity :v_bi:After two and a half years, it's time for an #IntroductoryPost

Prism & PenComing out as bisexual and polyamorous means I have to somehow balance the scales between oversharing and under-sharing, between TMI and being seen as secretive. I worry that I’ll misrepresent my people by over-representing — not all <a href="https://stranger.social/tags/bisexual" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#bisexual</a> people are polyamorous, nor are all <a href="https://stranger.social/tags/polyamorous" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#polyamorous</a> people bisexual. <a href="https://medium.com/prismnpen/my-struggle-coming-out-as-bisexual-polyamorous-1851ad9f5b3a?sk=7d9d785f8ed0daef7b1923b565affaf1" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank">https://medium.com/prismnpen/my-struggle-coming-out-as-bisexual-polyamorous-1851ad9f5b3a?sk=7d9d785f8ed0daef7b1923b565affaf1</a><a href="https://stranger.social/tags/LGBTQ" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#LGBTQ</a> <a href="https://stranger.social/tags/ComingOut" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#ComingOut</a>

Cheryl<a href="https://mastodon.deepthot.org/tags/Intro" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#Intro</a>I'm a <a href="https://mastodon.deepthot.org/tags/Black" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#Black</a> <a href="https://mastodon.deepthot.org/tags/bisexual" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#bisexual</a> <a href="https://mastodon.deepthot.org/tags/polyamorous" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#polyamorous</a> <a href="https://mastodon.deepthot.org/tags/ScienceFiction" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#ScienceFiction</a> <a href="https://mastodon.deepthot.org/tags/Fantasy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#Fantasy</a> <a href="https://mastodon.deepthot.org/tags/Convention" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#Convention</a> going fan.  I'm <a href="https://mastodon.deepthot.org/tags/disabled" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#disabled</a> with a bunch of <a href="https://mastodon.deepthot.org/tags/ChronicIlnesses" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#ChronicIlnesses</a>.  I have two <a href="https://mastodon.deepthot.org/tags/cats" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#cats</a> and my partner has a <a href="https://mastodon.deepthot.org/tags/parrot" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#parrot</a>.  I make <a href="https://mastodon.deepthot.org/tags/jewelery" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#jewelery</a> and my business is over at <a href="https://handmade.social/@dragonwolfdesigns" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">@dragonwolfdesigns</a> I love <a href="https://mastodon.deepthot.org/tags/rocks" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#rocks</a>, <a href="https://mastodon.deepthot.org/tags/SCA" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#SCA</a>, <a href="https://mastodon.deepthot.org/tags/space" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#space</a>, <a href="https://mastodon.deepthot.org/tags/art" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#art</a>, <a href="https://mastodon.deepthot.org/tags/geology" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#geology</a>, <a href="https://mastodon.deepthot.org/tags/gaming" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#gaming</a>, <a href="https://mastodon.deepthot.org/tags/ttrpgs" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#ttrpgs</a>, <a href="https://mastodon.deepthot.org/tags/books" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#books</a>, and more!  Hoping to connect with folks

YHSI<a href="https://chaos.social/@catileptic" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">@catileptic</a> heartbreak is still heartbreak no matter how much theory you put behind your relationships. Feel hugged if you like 🫂 from someone who feels heartbroken and super thrilled because of NRE at he same time and does not know what to do with this feelings no matter how much <a href="https://social.tchncs.de/tags/polyamorous" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#polyamorous</a> and <a href="https://social.tchncs.de/tags/RelationshipAnarchy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#RelationshipAnarchy</a> theory he digests.

Discovering Polyamory"Oh, I could never be polyamorous." Oh really? There's something about you that makes you incapable of creating healthy, non-patriarchal relationships that build you and your partners up rather than holding them down?You don't have to be <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/polyamorous" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#polyamorous</a> to have healthy relationships. But saying you *can't* be polyamorous is saying a lot more than you might realise. <a href="https://www.discoveringpolyamory.com/blog/yes-you-could-be-polyamorous" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank">https://www.discoveringpolyamory.com/blog/yes-you-could-be-polyamorous</a>

Andy BIf you missed the Pride month pricing for my MMF polyamorous romantasy, you can still get a discount through the Smashwords Summer/Winter Sale<a href="https://www.smashwords.com/books/view/1764014" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank">https://www.smashwords.com/books/view/1764014</a><a href="https://writing.exchange/tags/books" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#books</a> <a href="https://writing.exchange/tags/polyamorous" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#polyamorous</a> <a href="https://writing.exchange/tags/romantasy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#romantasy</a> <a href="https://writing.exchange/tags/Smashwords" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#Smashwords</a>

🌱 Alyssa 🏳️‍🌈Do you like <a href="https://mastodon.nz/tags/science" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#science</a>? Supporting <a href="https://mastodon.nz/tags/pride" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#pride</a>? Nerdy gaming references? Cheeky digs at LA <a href="https://mastodon.nz/tags/polyamorous" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#polyamorous</a> throuples? Completely absurd questions like how many sweatshirts you'd need to remove to give yourself a lethal dose of ozone?The That's Absurd, Please Elaborate <a href="https://mastodon.nz/tags/podcast" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#podcast</a> is probably for you.Nothing else makes me giggle as much on my morning commute.

Martin Guay 👨‍💻🌈🎮📱🍁<a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/Gay" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#Gay</a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/Gaybear" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#Gaybear</a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/Married" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#Married</a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/Polyamorous" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#Polyamorous</a> Hopefully, he sees this now. It might give him some clue.

Martin Guay 👨‍💻🌈🎮📱🍁When someone comes back years later and says, "See all the hard work I put into getting beefy and training at the gym, now will you go out with me?". The answer is still no. You didn't understand the first time why I said no. <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/Gay" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#Gay</a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/Gaybear" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#Gaybear</a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/Married" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#Married</a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/Polyamorous" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#Polyamorous</a> - Your attitude & personality sucks.

Discovering PolyamoryWhen you are openly and vocally <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/polyamorous" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#polyamorous</a> online, you will hear a lot of ridiculous myths. One of these myths is that women can't be polyamorous. So, let’s put this myth to bed, shall we? Women can be polyamorous. 100%, enthusiastically, polyamorous. And if you think otherwise, you might be trapped in patriarchal thinking about your relationships<a href="https://www.discoveringpolyamory.com/blog/yes-women-can-be-polyamorous" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank">https://www.discoveringpolyamory.com/blog/yes-women-can-be-polyamorous</a>

NaraMoore ⛩️👻八尺様👻⛩️ at Fedi<a href="https://sakurajima.moe/tags/WritersCoffeeClub" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#WritersCoffeeClub</a> 18 The eye of the duck: Share a ‘nonessential’ scene in one of your works that ties the piece together.Like others, I am puzzled by the idea of nonessential but tying things together. I suppose it scene that could be written around but is primarily there to inform.The following scene is from the early portion of "Konbini Idol," and sets up characterization for two MCs and rational why Ume is looking for a girlfriend when she is married.A portion of the text in alt text.<a href="https://sakurajima.moe/tags/NMWCC" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#NMWCC</a> <a href="https://sakurajima.moe/tags/NMPrompts" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#NMPrompts</a> <a href="https://sakurajima.moe/tags/Trans" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#Trans</a> <a href="https://sakurajima.moe/tags/TansMasc" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#TansMasc</a> <a href="https://sakurajima.moe/tags/PolyAmory" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#PolyAmory</a> <a href="https://sakurajima.moe/tags/polyamorous" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#polyamorous</a> <a href="https://sakurajima.moe/tags/KonbiniIdol" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#KonbiniIdol</a>

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