Have finally taken some time to read up on current VPN options in homelabs, as my involved hardware is no longer supported.
I have quite a few connections from my network to remote networks at family/friends for IT support (around 10). I connect from my pfSense via OpenVPN to OpenVPN server running on ASUS routers, flashed with Merlin firmware. The models are no longer supported, so am looking for alternatives.
Some of these ASUS routers function as a router plus the OpenVPN server, some routers just serve as an OpenVPN server.
Have checked Tailscale (with Headscale as I do not want to rely on 3rd parties)) and Netbird (apparently possible to selfhost).
In both setups every single device need to be configured separately and not all devices have native clients. Tailscale seems to have an option for "exit nodes" so the network where the device is in, is also reachable.
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