Melancholic Mediocrity :v_bi:After two and a half years, it's time for an #IntroductoryPost
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Prism & Pen<p>Coming out as bisexual and polyamorous means I have to somehow balance the scales between oversharing and under-sharing, between TMI and being seen as secretive. I worry that I’ll misrepresent my people by over-representing — not all <a href="https://stranger.social/tags/bisexual" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>bisexual</span></a> people are polyamorous, nor are all <a href="https://stranger.social/tags/polyamorous" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>polyamorous</span></a> people bisexual.<br><a href="https://medium.com/prismnpen/my-struggle-coming-out-as-bisexual-polyamorous-1851ad9f5b3a?sk=7d9d785f8ed0daef7b1923b565affaf1" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">medium.com/prismnpen/my-strugg</span><span class="invisible">le-coming-out-as-bisexual-polyamorous-1851ad9f5b3a?sk=7d9d785f8ed0daef7b1923b565affaf1</span></a></p><p><a href="https://stranger.social/tags/LGBTQ" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>LGBTQ</span></a> <a href="https://stranger.social/tags/ComingOut" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>ComingOut</span></a></p>
Cheryl<p><a href="https://mastodon.deepthot.org/tags/Intro" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Intro</span></a></p><p>I'm a <a href="https://mastodon.deepthot.org/tags/Black" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Black</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.deepthot.org/tags/bisexual" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>bisexual</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.deepthot.org/tags/polyamorous" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>polyamorous</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.deepthot.org/tags/ScienceFiction" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>ScienceFiction</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.deepthot.org/tags/Fantasy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Fantasy</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.deepthot.org/tags/Convention" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Convention</span></a> going fan. I'm <a href="https://mastodon.deepthot.org/tags/disabled" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>disabled</span></a> with a bunch of <a href="https://mastodon.deepthot.org/tags/ChronicIlnesses" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>ChronicIlnesses</span></a>. I have two <a href="https://mastodon.deepthot.org/tags/cats" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>cats</span></a> and my partner has a <a href="https://mastodon.deepthot.org/tags/parrot" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>parrot</span></a>. I make <a href="https://mastodon.deepthot.org/tags/jewelery" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>jewelery</span></a> and my business is over at <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://handmade.social/@dragonwolfdesigns" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">@<span>dragonwolfdesigns</span></a></span> </p><p>I love <a href="https://mastodon.deepthot.org/tags/rocks" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>rocks</span></a>, <a href="https://mastodon.deepthot.org/tags/SCA" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>SCA</span></a>, <a href="https://mastodon.deepthot.org/tags/space" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>space</span></a>, <a href="https://mastodon.deepthot.org/tags/art" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>art</span></a>, <a href="https://mastodon.deepthot.org/tags/geology" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>geology</span></a>, <a href="https://mastodon.deepthot.org/tags/gaming" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>gaming</span></a>, <a href="https://mastodon.deepthot.org/tags/ttrpgs" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>ttrpgs</span></a>, <a href="https://mastodon.deepthot.org/tags/books" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>books</span></a>, and more! Hoping to connect with folks</p>
YHSI<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://chaos.social/@catileptic" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">@<span>catileptic</span></a></span> heartbreak is still heartbreak no matter how much theory you put behind your relationships. Feel hugged if you like 🫂 from someone who feels heartbroken and super thrilled because of NRE at he same time and does not know what to do with this feelings no matter how much <a href="https://social.tchncs.de/tags/polyamorous" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>polyamorous</span></a> and <a href="https://social.tchncs.de/tags/RelationshipAnarchy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>RelationshipAnarchy</span></a> theory he digests.</p>
Discovering Polyamory<p>"Oh, I could never be polyamorous." </p><p>Oh really? There's something about you that makes you incapable of creating healthy, non-patriarchal relationships that build you and your partners up rather than holding them down?</p><p>You don't have to be <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/polyamorous" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>polyamorous</span></a> to have healthy relationships. But saying you *can't* be polyamorous is saying a lot more than you might realise. </p><p><a href="https://www.discoveringpolyamory.com/blog/yes-you-could-be-polyamorous" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">discoveringpolyamory.com/blog/</span><span class="invisible">yes-you-could-be-polyamorous</span></a></p>
Andy B (ze/they/she)<p>If you missed the Pride month pricing for my MMF polyamorous romantasy, you can still get a discount through the Smashwords Summer/Winter Sale</p><p><a href="https://www.smashwords.com/books/view/1764014" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">smashwords.com/books/view/1764</span><span class="invisible">014</span></a></p><p><a href="https://writing.exchange/tags/books" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>books</span></a><br><a href="https://writing.exchange/tags/polyamorous" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>polyamorous</span></a><br><a href="https://writing.exchange/tags/romantasy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>romantasy</span></a><br><a href="https://writing.exchange/tags/Smashwords" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Smashwords</span></a></p>
🌱 Alyssa 🏳️🌈<p>Do you like <a href="https://mastodon.nz/tags/science" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>science</span></a>? Supporting <a href="https://mastodon.nz/tags/pride" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>pride</span></a>? Nerdy gaming references? Cheeky digs at LA <a href="https://mastodon.nz/tags/polyamorous" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>polyamorous</span></a> throuples? Completely absurd questions like how many sweatshirts you'd need to remove to give yourself a lethal dose of ozone?</p><p>The That's Absurd, Please Elaborate <a href="https://mastodon.nz/tags/podcast" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>podcast</span></a> is probably for you.</p><p>Nothing else makes me giggle as much on my morning commute.</p>
Martin Guay 👨💻🌈🎮📱🍁<p><a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/Gay" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Gay</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/Gaybear" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Gaybear</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/Married" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Married</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/Polyamorous" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Polyamorous</span></a> Hopefully, he sees this now. It might give him some clue.</p>
Martin Guay 👨💻🌈🎮📱🍁<p>When someone comes back years later and says, "See all the hard work I put into getting beefy and training at the gym, now will you go out with me?". The answer is still no. You didn't understand the first time why I said no. <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/Gay" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Gay</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/Gaybear" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Gaybear</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/Married" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Married</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.ca/tags/Polyamorous" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Polyamorous</span></a> - Your attitude & personality sucks.</p>
Discovering Polyamory<p>When you are openly and vocally <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/polyamorous" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>polyamorous</span></a> online, you will hear a lot of ridiculous myths. One of these myths is that women can't be polyamorous. So, let’s put this myth to bed, shall we? Women can be polyamorous. 100%, enthusiastically, polyamorous. </p><p>And if you think otherwise, you might be trapped in patriarchal thinking about your relationships</p><p><a href="https://www.discoveringpolyamory.com/blog/yes-women-can-be-polyamorous" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">discoveringpolyamory.com/blog/</span><span class="invisible">yes-women-can-be-polyamorous</span></a></p>
NaraMoore ⛩️👻八尺様👻⛩️ at Fedi<p><a href="https://sakurajima.moe/tags/WritersCoffeeClub" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>WritersCoffeeClub</span></a> 18 The eye of the duck: Share a ‘nonessential’ scene in one of your works that ties the piece together.</p><p>Like others, I am puzzled by the idea of nonessential but tying things together. I suppose it scene that could be written around but is primarily there to inform.</p><p>The following scene is from the early portion of "Konbini Idol," and sets up characterization for two MCs and rational why Ume is looking for a girlfriend when she is married.</p><p>A portion of the text in alt text.</p><p><a href="https://sakurajima.moe/tags/NMWCC" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>NMWCC</span></a> <a href="https://sakurajima.moe/tags/NMPrompts" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>NMPrompts</span></a> <a href="https://sakurajima.moe/tags/Trans" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Trans</span></a> <a href="https://sakurajima.moe/tags/TansMasc" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>TansMasc</span></a> <a href="https://sakurajima.moe/tags/PolyAmory" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>PolyAmory</span></a> <a href="https://sakurajima.moe/tags/polyamorous" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>polyamorous</span></a> <a href="https://sakurajima.moe/tags/KonbiniIdol" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>KonbiniIdol</span></a></p>
Janek @ IndieDev.site<p>Oh no I might be really falling for her 😭</p><p><a href="https://mastodon.gamedev.place/tags/polyamorous" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>polyamorous</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.gamedev.place/tags/thegoodplace" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>thegoodplace</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.gamedev.place/tags/memes" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>memes</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.gamedev.place/tags/notwhatimcalled" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>notwhatimcalled</span></a></p>
Discovering Polyamory<p>Do you think you could never be <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/polyamorous" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>polyamorous</span></a>? Or are your attitudes about relationships caught up in Patriarchal conditioning? </p><p>Polyamory isn't necessarily about dating multiple people. It's about deconstructing our preconceptions about relationships and learning to rebuild them free from the harmful preconceptions of ownership and mastery over our partners.</p>
🖤B&W🤍<p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/lgbtq" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>lgbtq</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/queer" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>queer</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/xenogender" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>xenogender</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/trans" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>trans</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/transgender" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>transgender</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/pansexual" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>pansexual</span></a> <br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/polyamorous" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>polyamorous</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/genderfluid" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>genderfluid</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/demirose" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>demirose</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/demiaroace" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>demiaroace</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/lunagender" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>lunagender</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/pride" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>pride</span></a> #🖤🤍</p>
Andy B (ze/they/she)<p>I wrote a review for Cedar McCloud's The Thread That Binds, a cozy book about polyamorous agender people in a magic library. If you think you might like something like that, check out my post for links!</p><p><a href="https://andorabrokaw.com/2025/06/05/the-thread-that-binds-by-cedar-mccloud/" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">andorabrokaw.com/2025/06/05/th</span><span class="invisible">e-thread-that-binds-by-cedar-mccloud/</span></a></p><p><a href="https://writing.exchange/tags/polyamorous" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>polyamorous</span></a> <a href="https://writing.exchange/tags/polyamorousfantasy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>polyamorousfantasy</span></a> <a href="https://writing.exchange/tags/fantasy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>fantasy</span></a> <a href="https://writing.exchange/tags/agender" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>agender</span></a> <a href="https://writing.exchange/tags/bookrecs" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>bookrecs</span></a></p>
🍂:･*Fweeblies*:･🍂<p>Happy Pride Y'all~</p><p>The flag is: Demisexual, Panromantic, Polyamorous<br>I made it mahself cuz I couldn't find one with all 3 of those xD</p><p>Also I just REALLY like how I drew my face in this piece.</p><p><a href="https://pawb.fun/tags/furryart" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>furryart</span></a> <a href="https://pawb.fun/tags/pride" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>pride</span></a> <a href="https://pawb.fun/tags/flag" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>flag</span></a> <a href="https://pawb.fun/tags/demisexual" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>demisexual</span></a> <a href="https://pawb.fun/tags/panromantic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>panromantic</span></a> <a href="https://pawb.fun/tags/polyamorous" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>polyamorous</span></a> <a href="https://pawb.fun/tags/cat" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>cat</span></a> <a href="https://pawb.fun/tags/trpc" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>trpc</span></a> <a href="https://pawb.fun/tags/flatcolor" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>flatcolor</span></a> <a href="https://pawb.fun/tags/personalart" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>personalart</span></a></p>
Discovering Polyamory<p>The reason we're <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/polyamorous" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>polyamorous</span></a> doesn't matter.</p><p>We can argue all day and all night about whether polyamory is "natural", how our ancestors' relationships looked, or how different cultures have enforced their social norms on others throughout history. </p><p>At the end of the day, we have no need to justify polyamory to anyone. </p>
Discovering Polyamory<p><a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/Polyamorous" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Polyamorous</span></a> breakups are difficult. Things are going to change, but you have to remember this is not about you. </p><p><a href="https://www.discoveringpolyamory.com/blog/what-do-you-do-when-your-partner-goes-through-a-breakup" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">discoveringpolyamory.com/blog/</span><span class="invisible">what-do-you-do-when-your-partner-goes-through-a-breakup</span></a></p>
Tisha Tiger<p>🎶 I am what I am 🎶</p><p><a href="https://htt.social/tags/pansexual" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>pansexual</span></a> <a href="https://htt.social/tags/polyamorous" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>polyamorous</span></a> <a href="https://htt.social/tags/prideMonth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>prideMonth</span></a></p>
James Finn<p>Happy <a href="https://stranger.social/tags/Pride2025" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Pride2025</span></a>! Prism & Pen kicks off the season with a story about a kickass <a href="https://stranger.social/tags/lesbian" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>lesbian</span></a> <a href="https://stranger.social/tags/polyamorous" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>polyamorous</span></a> lawyer born in 1895. We explain why the bathroom debate is NOT about <a href="https://stranger.social/tags/transgender" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>transgender</span></a> people, and we center <a href="https://stranger.social/tags/queer" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>queer</span></a> family with personal, direct <a href="https://stranger.social/tags/LGBTQ" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>LGBTQ</span></a> storytelling. Join us!<br><a href="https://medium.com/prismnpen/its-pride-2025-join-us-for-queer-history-politics-and-lives-5797608b1b97" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">medium.com/prismnpen/its-pride</span><span class="invisible">-2025-join-us-for-queer-history-politics-and-lives-5797608b1b97</span></a></p>
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