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Okay, so I’m kind of known for oversharing all the little, weird, and random things going on in my life. Like, it’s basically my thing at this point, and honestly, I don’t even try to hide it anymore.

Sometimes I wonder if anyone actually cares or if I’m just talking to myself, but honestly, it makes me happy, so here we are just vibing, being a little extra, and sharing my weird little world with you.

And yep, if it’s not totally obvious by now, I’m #Autistic, so, deal with it and maybe bring some snacks.

I was dreading coming in to work today because I'm SO behind with everything and I feel guilty all the time about it because there is TOO MUCH, but now I've spoken to 3 students doing or wanting to do cool fish research and remembered why I love this job and I feel a bit better again.
#AcademicChatter
#OverSharing

A new-ish friend told me recently that when she first met me she was startled by my "honesty", it put her off at first, then she decided she liked it and we got to be good mates.

That struck me as odd because isn't honest a desirable trait? Upon contemplation, I think whatever she is talking about turns a lot of people off, but it draws certain types of people.

I think it's actually that I overshare. But I'm not sure if that's something I can or should try to stop doing, nor how to achieve that!
I have no idea what hashtags would be appropriate..
#oversharing ? Lol

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#Autismus kann so sein:
Du wirst gefragt:“Wie geht es dir?“
Du bleibst stumm, weil du erstmal überlegen musst. Schließlich gibt es so viele Einflüsse auf dein Wohlbefinden…und aktuelle Messwerte/ Laborergebnisse liegen dir nicht vor. Oder du antwortest ehrlich und damit ausführlich- andere nennen das #Oversharing .Du bist in ihren Augen unhöflich und egozentrisch- auch weil du selbst nur Leute „wie geht’s?“ fragst, deren Antwort dich auch ehrlich interessiert. #ActuallyAutistic

Now we are in low orbit around Christmas Day itself, I realise how I am slightly dreading it, since everything has changed in my life since last Christmas.

Encapsulated in that sentence is the power of the Christmas tradition: it makes us think back and compare, joining this year to the long line of Christmases in our past.

It interests me how all traditions like this are a kind of reified continuity. A way of manifesting the passage of time in the world, in a way we can hold on to and share. Continuity in community, or maybe the other way around.

So I do not dread Christmas: the important change is the fracturing and remaking of my familial community, which is most evident in the times of family tradition. A change that requires work.

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@douglasvb To make it all more awkward, my spouse died almost five years ago, a fact that was communicated to this friend at the time in a message that other friends took note of and responded to, so I'm not quite sure exactly what's going on. But we had drifted apart over the years anyway, so it's not worth it to me to do anything more than recycle the card every year when it comes. #oversharing