JulieB<p><span class="h-card"><a href="https://deacon.social/@chuckanderson" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>chuckanderson</span></a></span> A bit of a whirl here complete with tears. Don't worry, it's me, not you. I typically like/boost introductions to help people find their people. I read your introduction & had concerns but followed you anyway. When you just edited your introduction adding your enneagram <a href="https://deacon.social/tags/9w1" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>9w1</span></a> (me too!) I had a flash of understanding as to my concern: the 'I am not my own' concept has been used by church leadership to take away my no. Never saw it so clearly as just now. A little freer now. Thanks.</p>