I'm having an actual proper productive argument, where we're following an actual truth-seeking procedure.
On the internet.
I love the Fediverse.
I strongly recommend having arguments about things you disagree about, and especially double-cruxing them. <https://www.ericherboso.org/2016/01/the-double-crux-game.html> Up until today, this was all just a theoretical recommendation, but… wow does it help.
I think I'm finally starting to see the meaning of “what do you think you know, and how do you think you know it?". I'm probably right about this thing I'm arguing about, but my reasons for believing it right now are stupid (and are the same reason I didn't believe it earlier).
This argument fell through, but that's okay; I still learned a lot. And it's the closest I've come to having one anywhere, so… I still love the Fediverse!
And another thing!
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