I hear ya. There will always be 100 different apps for a thing and it can be exhausting looking for a perfect fit. I ditched my long time favourite Todoist and went with pen and paper for a while and then recently moved to Taskwarrior (desktop only). You really don't have to go looking for apps. Paper can be very versatile.
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