we really need to stop normalizing/idolizing "<person> is a complete asshole, but they have a knack for <some skill>, so we put up with it."
you are a human being before a you are a skill-doer.
@mryouse I shall keep this in mind. There are people who should hear the opposite advice, but most people in this crowd (myself included) should probably hear this advice.
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