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men are such fucking spineless dweebs they took a meme about how women fear for their very lives around strange men and compared it to men thinking women don’t understand their fee-fees

cackling imagining how much better the world would be if any of these loser incels ever even touched a tree but then I realized they'd probably do something disgusting to it

Moz

@rebeccawatson belittling men who show feelings doesn't seem like an effective way to get what you say you want.

@moz What feelings, though? And for what purpose? Are you looking for a therapist and/or mom who will take care of you? Are you confessing your crush to someone who probably doesn't return the feeling? Are you trying to bare your soul in the hope that will make her feel closer to you so you can get laid?

Genuine friendships and relationships are give and take. If all you want from someone is to take, then don't be surprised that she's not interested.

@moz @rebeccawatson we have all heard men's misogynistic bs, we don't need to listen to that more
maybe talk about your feelings with other men, stop expecting women to do your emotional labour

@Dangerous_beans @moz @rebeccawatson
stop expecting men to listen to your bs Lost in the woods with a bear fantasy. it goes both ways

@Dangerous_beans @rebeccawatson Rebecca reached out to find that post and comment on it. If she didn't want to engage she didn't have to.

So it's not "men expecting Rebecca to provide free therapy" it's "Rebecca expecting men to discuss their feelings where she can't find them even when she tries to".

As for me? I don't really care how hostile people are to men's feelings, I'm innured to that. But I still occasionally ask what the goal of the hostility is.

@moz Please stop, my eyes are rolling so far back in my head it's damaging my vision.

@moz @rebeccawatson She's NOT belittling men for wanting to share their feelings. She's belittling the particular men who made this absurd meme. Men who equate the fear of ridicule with the fear of sexual assault.

@moz @rebeccawatson anyone who thinks "all men" when someone makes a comment about "incel losers" needs to sit and think for a few minutes