While we disagree with its characterization of Message Styling (which is widely implemented, possibly more so than XHTML-IM ever was), we hereby announce our intent to implement XEP-0457: Message Fancying! Definitely real. Nothing to see here. https://xmpp.org/extensions/xep-0457.html
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