@lig I get most via e-mail, but I'd like to replace most of it with messengers. Matrix is pretty good, even though disappearing messages aren't implemented right now (which is a really cool feature of, e.g. Signal)
Tied between IRC, Mail and XMPP. Really depends on what you count as usage.
Chat in IRC daily - Communication with Wife/Family goes over XMPP - Mail for many internet-services and automated stuff.
No Matrix whatsoever though.
I think it depends a lot on the context.😉
Personal #messaging (family, friends & beyond): No #IRC/#Matrix at all. Last personal #email dropped in on new years eve. It was a friend I hadn't seen for about five years. Everybody else in my bubble is on #XMPP now. Especially the less tech savvy people through https://quicksy.im or some run @snikket_im for their family or group. 👍
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