Wow, this blog post captures a lot of what I'm feeling at the moment:
"People aren’t so concerned about you as you think. We’ve all heard this universal truth that everyone is consumed with thinking about themselves. What this tells me is, we have an opportunity to be better advocates for ourselves. And to give ourselves more grace rather than worry about how our decisions are perceived."
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