Looks like for maximum stability I need to stick with x11 instead of Wayland. Ubuntu with Wayland is about where Manjaro was with X11, perfectly usable, but just bits of weirdness I had to stop and debug or get used to. I think Fedora is probably better for Wayland, but Ubuntu and other Debian based distros are my comfort place so I'll take the trade off since there's not many wayland only things out there yet and they probably won't impact me for a while yer and Ubuntu should catch up by then.
@bsharitt I feel the same way. I just want Wayland to be stable and the norm already.
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