@blueberry this was the thing that got me off of birdsite. I started by completely disabling all notifications for the app, and then deleting it and using it exclusively via the webapp. I use it once every week or so to check my group DM or to like a tweet. feels great!
@blueberry that'd probably work. I find mastodon to be a much healthier place than Twitter, but too much of anything is bad.
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