Arrrg, libp2p is almost good enough. Trying to use the IPFS bootstrap nodes to resolve a LAN server from a static site and open a bidirectional socket. That would open so many possibilities. Alas, the websocket transport doesn't support proxied discovery and it isn't part of the default protocol set anyway. There's always DDNS.
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